10 Signs To Know If Your Boy Friend Wishes To Marry You.

Everybody always claims to be in a relationship but the truth
is..some people are confused where their own will lead them to,
what does the future hold for both of them. The girl sometimes
out of fear, keeps her relationship open because she doesnt trust
if her boy friend will actually end up marrying her especially when
she loves him. So long your boy friend is not a pretender, I think
these hints below may really help you a bit or to an extent if your
boy friend has really come to stay or hit-and-run type.
1. SEX IS NOT A PRIORITY:
If your boy friend meets you as a virgin and never disturbs or
pressures you over having sex with you or giving him your
virginity, it means he has really come to stay. Initially, you told
him you wont have sex till marriage even when you didnt mean it
but just to try him yet his love for you never for one day changes,
instead he encourages you..i think its an evidence that he loves
you as a wife. If he meets you when you are no longer a virgin
and can stay with you in same room for 2 or 3 days without
being all about sex if you are the type that visits and stays for
some days or doesnt demand sex whenever you come if you are
the type that visits on a daily bases, I think its enough to believe
that he wants not just sex but your company also.
2. HE SPENDS MORE ON YOUR EDUCATION:
He may not really be a rich guy but when it comes to your
education, he will have money and spend it on it even when he
doesnt spend much on you like that often. He sees you worthy to
invest on to secure your future because he also sees it as his own
future. Even as a rich guy, you notice he spends more on your
education than other things about you. This is because he wants
you not just to look good only but also to be somebody tomorrow
and for him no to have any reason not to marry you.
3. HE SEEMS VERY JEALOUS:
His jealousness is not that he doesnt trust you. He trusts you, he
just doesnt want others to tell you what he tells you or others to
feel what he feels for you. He doesnt want to have this
imagination that someone will be sleeping with or touching his
wife. He sees you as his wife already even when you are not and
you know someone feels hurts when someone sleeps with his
wife.
4. HE TRIES TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOUR FAMILY:
He always asks about your family, he tries to know how many
brothers and sisters you have, what they do, how many are
married and how many are single. What your parents do..its not
as if he wants to know how rich or poor your family is, he is only
trying to have the picture of the kind of family he wants or wishes
to marry from.
5. HE HIDES NOTHING FROM YOU:
The reason why he hides nothing from you is because he believes
that whatever he hides from you that you will definitely know
when he marries you, so what does he gain in hiding something
you will stil know tomorrow. He tells you what he likes and finds
out what you like too. He tells you his life styles, his bad habits,
things he can never do without and so on. He also tells you what
he does for a living, sometimes he waits for you to ask in other
to know if you would ask because he cant just start telling you
unless you ask to avoid seeing him as someone who brags.
6. HE TRIES TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS ABOUT YOU:
Nobody has ever met someone and liked or loved everything
about the person. He will always try to change the ones he feels
he can change even though they say you should not try to
change someone but in this case, he wants to be happy with his
marriage. When he changes the ones he can change about you,
he will start learning on how to adjust, live and cope with the
ones he cant change. Its because of this trying to change certain
things about you that sometimes your relationship with him
seems to exprience ups and downs but at the end, peace,
understanding and joy will come into existence.
7. HE SEEMS NOT TO SPEND MUCH ON YOU:
To you, you will think he doesnt spend much on you. We all know
that there are guys that when they see a girl and wish to sleep
with her, they will spend so much on her to get her to the extent
that you will say..wow!..what a cheerful person. In his mind, he
spends because he has a mission and once the mission is
accomplished, he leaves or stops spending, some girls will
understand or have exprienced this. There is no guy that will be
dating a girl he wants to marry and just be spending on her like a
fool, any guy who does that has a mission. When a guy who
loves and wishes to marry you is dating you, he will be moderate
on spending. This is because he will like to find out if all you
want is his money or love and he cant find the answer by
spending extravagantly on you. He will keep it slow, moderate
and steady. He also believes that the more he saves now, the
better he takes care of you tomorrow as his wife which is more
important.
8. HE TRIES TO KNOW ALL ABOUT YOU:
Knowing all about you ranges from knowing what you like most,
what you like doing most, what you like eating most, your
favourite colour, your favourite food, your weak point, what gets
you angry, what makes you happy, how you see and understand
things, how you handle things when angered, how many children
you like to have as a wife and so on. He is not being too
inquisitive, he is only trying to know if he can cope with your type
or not because marrying someone is not like dating somene. If
he has no plan for future with you, he wont care t know some of
these things.
9. HE ADORES HOW YOU ARE:
He adores how you are presently and will also adore how you will
be in future especially when you tell him that your mum used to
be slim and now she is fat..meaning that you may be fat too and
he stil doesnt see it as anything. He tries to make your
relationship attain that peak comfort level in which both of you
will know and appreciate everything about each other.
10. HE LETS YOU KNOW WHEN YOU OFFEND HIM:
He wont bear grudges for you or keep records of what you do to
him. When you offend him, he will let you know by reacting to it
and make you understand that he doesnt like what you did. Its
not like he is hot-tempered, he just wants you to understand and
for you to try not to repeat it. Someone who doesnt have any
intention of marrying you will say whats his business with what
you do when you offend him afterall, is he going to marry you but
someone who wishes to marry you will try to prevent such from
happening next time and the only way to do that is by letting you
know when you offend him. A hit and run type never feels
offended, he will always be saying..its just a matter of time.
These are just few I know, maybe you can add yours or say your
own opinion...its allowed.